What a reverse mortgage actually is
A reverse mortgage is a loan against your home equity that does not require monthly repayment while you live in the home. Instead of you paying the lender each month, the lender pays you — or makes funds available to you — and the loan balance grows over time as interest accrues. The loan is repaid when you sell the home, move out permanently, or die.
The most common type in the US is the Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM), which is insured by the Federal Housing Administration (FHA) and regulated by the Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD). Most of what follows applies specifically to HECMs, which account for the vast majority of reverse mortgages originated.
Basic eligibility requirements
- You must be at least 62 years old (all borrowers on title must meet this)
- The home must be your primary residence
- You must have substantial equity — typically at least 50% of the home's value
- You must complete HUD-approved counselling before closing
- You must be able to continue paying property taxes, homeowner's insurance, and maintenance
How you receive the money
HECM borrowers can choose from several disbursement options, and the choice significantly affects how useful the product is:
| Option | How it works | Best for |
|---|---|---|
| Lump sum | All available equity at closing, fixed interest rate | Paying off an existing mortgage or large one-time expense |
| Monthly payments (tenure) | Equal monthly payments as long as you live in the home | Supplementing a fixed income indefinitely |
| Monthly payments (term) | Equal monthly payments for a defined period | Bridging a specific gap (e.g., before Social Security) |
| Line of credit | Draw funds as needed; unused balance grows over time | Flexibility and access to funds without using them immediately |
| Combination | Mix of the above options | Part monthly income, part emergency reserve |
The line of credit option is often the most financially advantageous and least used. The unused line of credit grows at the same rate as the loan interest rate — meaning the longer you wait to draw on it, the more is available. Establishing a line of credit early, before a health event reduces your options, is a strategy some financial planners recommend as a precautionary measure.
The real costs — which the ads don't emphasise
Reverse mortgages are among the most expensive financial products available to homeowners. The fees and interest accumulation mean that a reverse mortgage can consume a substantial portion of home equity over time.
Upfront costs
- Origination fee: Up to $6,000 (HECM cap)
- Upfront MIP (mortgage insurance premium): 2% of appraised value — on a $400,000 home, that's $8,000
- Closing costs: Appraisal, title, legal — typically $2,000–$5,000
- Total upfront typical range: $10,000–$20,000
Ongoing costs
- Annual MIP: 0.5% of loan balance per year
- Interest: Accrues on the growing loan balance — typically at variable rates of 5–8% in 2026
- Servicing fees: Up to $35/month
How equity erodes over time
On a $400,000 home with $200,000 in initial loan proceeds at 6.5% interest, the loan balance grows to approximately $280,000 after 5 years, $390,000 after 10 years, and over $540,000 after 15 years — potentially exceeding the home's value if property values are flat or declining. The FHA insurance protects you from owing more than the home is worth (HECM is non-recourse), but it eliminates the equity that might otherwise be left to heirs.
When a reverse mortgage makes sense
Despite the costs, there are genuine situations where a reverse mortgage is the right tool:
- You have significant home equity and limited liquid income, and you need to fund ongoing care costs or home modifications to age in place safely
- You want to eliminate an existing mortgage payment — converting a mortgage into a reverse mortgage removes the monthly payment obligation, significantly improving monthly cash flow
- You don't intend to leave the home to heirs — or your heirs have been consulted and understand and accept the trade-off
- You're using it as a strategic financial planning tool — establishing a growing line of credit as insurance against future care costs, rather than drawing it down immediately
- You've exhausted other funding options — grants, Medicaid, VA benefits, family support — and the reverse mortgage is genuinely the last practical option
When to consider alternatives instead
- You might need to move within a few years — the upfront costs make short-term reverse mortgages very expensive per dollar received
- You or your spouse is under 62 — a non-borrowing younger spouse has complex protections under current rules that need careful evaluation
- You struggle to pay current property taxes or insurance — the ongoing obligations don't go away and remaining current on them is a loan condition
- A HELOC would serve your needs — if you have income to make payments, a home equity line of credit provides similar access to equity with lower fees and without the growing loan balance dynamic
- Downsizing would work better — selling a larger home and moving somewhere smaller or less expensive can release equity cleanly, without ongoing interest accrual or loan obligations
Before you apply: essential steps
- Complete HUD counselling honestly. The required HUD-approved counselling session is not a formality. Use it to ask hard questions and explore whether alternatives make more sense for your situation. The counsellor has no financial stake in your decision.
- Have the conversation with your heirs. If you have children or others who expect to inherit the home, this conversation needs to happen before you close — not after. The surprise of an outstanding reverse mortgage at the time of a parent's death causes significant family conflict.
- Get independent financial advice. Reverse mortgage salespeople are paid on commission. A fee-only financial adviser or elder law attorney has no incentive to push you toward the product and can evaluate whether it makes sense given your complete financial picture.
- Verify you can sustain the ongoing obligations. Property taxes, insurance, and maintenance must continue to be paid. Review your budget carefully and consider what would happen if your income decreased.
- Compare at least three lenders. Interest rates, fees, and service quality vary between HECM lenders. The HUD HECM lender list is a starting point; independent mortgage brokers can provide comparisons.
Frequently asked questions
Can I lose my home with a reverse mortgage?
What happens to my spouse if I die first?
Does a reverse mortgage affect my Social Security or Medicare?
Is a reverse mortgage the same as selling my home?
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